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Women's Soccer

The Originals

The women behind the creation of Stanford women’s soccer

ALL STORIES HAVE a beginning, even stories that have gone untold.

We know about Julie Foudy, Catarina Macario, Kelley O’Hara, Christen Press … Some of the country’s greatest women’s soccer players have come through the Stanford portal.

But what of Allison Brown, Ellen Griep, Kathy Kelley? They surely are just as important for what they did to create that path.

A commonality among women’s sports, including those at Stanford, is that nearly each one was created with a fight. Struggles for equality, recognition, and respect. And from those fights, good things happened – championships, All-Americans, glory. But who remembers the fighters?  

The Stanford women’s soccer team has won three national championships, reached five NCAA finals, advanced to 10 College Cup final fours, crowned five different Hermann Trophy winners, and helped 10 players reach the World Cup.

All of it can be traced to one person.

The 1976 Stanford women's soccer teamThe 1976 Stanford women's soccer team

ALLISON BROWN ’77 was in the Stanford band. She first played clarinet and for a while the tuba, ‘scattering” through halftime shows, as the band did, and painted “Boobs on Toobs” on her tuba bell.

“I’ve always been a very strong feminist,” she said from Berlin, her home since being granted a Fulbright Scholarship in 1982. “Reducing women to a body part is not something I would normally do, but that fit. It drew attention to women being out there, in a way that the Stanford band could relate to. I felt like it was OK.”

Brown started out majoring in chemistry because she felt it was important for women to be involved in contraception research. Eventually, she grew weary of chemistry and sat for a heart to heart with one of her professors, Carl Djerassi, the father of the birth control pill.

“It’s true, there have to be more women doing this,” Djerassi told her. “But it makes more sense to have women doing it who want to be there.”

Brown switched to German Studies, leading to a career as a translator of books and museum exhibitions in Germany. In the life she’s made there, she plays the clarinet in Berlin’s women’s concert band, organized a soccer team that won a Gay Games gold medal, and likes to run half-marathons, eager to attempt another for the first time since enduring a heart attack in 2019.

Brown arrived at Stanford in 1973 from Dix Hills, Long Island. Though a fan of the boys’ team at Half Hollow Hills High School, she never played soccer herself. She played fifth singles badminton; but “I wasn’t very good,” she said. “I was more in charge of the tea for the break.”

Allison’s mother, Tibby, was a civil service worker in family court and fought for equal pay in the courtroom. Barbara preceded sister Allison at Stanford and was active in the Women’s Center, a resource center, and in 1974 helped create a “Guide for Stanford Women,” a 40-page pamphlet with health, legal, and safety advice: “You’ve seen your advisor six times and he still doesn’t know your name … you’re three weeks late … you want to play lacrosse but there’s no women’s team … your bike has a flat tire … you need a job but the ads say ‘male preferred.’”

“She was the feminist before me,” Allison said.

To Allison, athletic ability wasn’t a prerequisite for her involvement in sports. When the boys of Branner Hall played pickup soccer in front of the dorm, Brown joined in. When Branner formed an intramural soccer team, Brown joined that too. Being the only female in the entire league wasn’t scary, it was perplexing.

“I thought, It would be more fun to play with women,” Brown recalled. “Why isn’t there a women’s team?”

Brown made a decision. Before she left Stanford, there would be a women’s soccer program and she was going to have something to do with it. Her superpower, after all, was persistence. That’s when the sophomore started hanging up flyers “on every women’s bathroom door on campus.”

Those who responded to a women's intramural team were a collection of undergrads, graduates, staff members, and student wives. Some, or perhaps most, didn’t even know the rules. Yet, come January, they would play full-field seven-a-side soccer against men.

Brown set up daily one-hour practice sessions. Sometimes, no one else showed, leaving Allison alone with a ball and her thoughts. Sometimes, it was just Brown and Eila Skinner, a junior, kicking a ball back and forth, or chasing it when they tried to shoot against each other without any actual goals.

“I can’t even believe it now that I think about it,” said Skinner, now chair of Stanford’s Department of Urology. “We were not very good. Oh man, they killed us. You definitely knew the intramural thing playing against the guys was not going to be a very good answer.”

Skinner was an exception to the lack-of-experience rule. She played on a girls’ team at her boarding school, Emma Willard in upstate New York, and as a freshman was “shocked” to learn Stanford didn’t have a women’s soccer team.

The team dubbed “Women’s Center,” though it had no connection with the center, opened with a 3-0 loss to the El Tigre eating club. The Stanford Daily enjoyed the novelty, and writer Pete Bhatia provided a lighthearted description of women playing in a men’s league that was viewed as condescending and sexist.

Brown responded quickly, calling Bhatia out in a lengthy letter to the editor signed by the entire team. Bhatia, later a 10-time Pulitzer Prize-winning newspaper editor, claimed Brown couldn’t take a joke. The team didn’t score all season and lost every match. But that wasn’t the point. It proved women were interested in playing soccer (and, in fact, there were many men’s teams that lost by more outrageous scores). 

Brown knew they were on to something and talked Stanford men’s soccer coach Fred Priddle into teaching a beginning class for women. In the fall of 1975, Priddle saw enough promise to relay a message – Cal had challenged Stanford to a match.

With days to assemble a team, Brown checked old phone lists, made calls, and distributed even more leaflets. She found Maria Duryea playing pickup soccer with foreign professors at lunch time. Julie Zender and Lorraine Davis responded to an ad in the Daily. Others were plucked from P.E. classes because they looked “athletic.”

However, the biggest additions were Ellen Griep and Kathy Kelley, freshmen on the men’s freshmen team. With those two, Stanford women’s soccer was on its way.

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ELLEN GRIEP was a natural athlete -- “graceful,” was a common adjective. Not fast, but agile, with excellent skills and an ability to figure out the game and be in the right place at the right time.

“She was a beautiful player,” said Kathy Kelley Carey recently. “I just got the ball to Ellen and she did her magic.”

Her father, Bob Griep, was a physician at Seattle Public Health Service Hospital, an edifice known as the Pacific Tower and sitting along the city skyline atop Beacon Hill. For a while, the family lived on the hospital grounds in quarters that once housed officers when it was run by the military. Eventually, they moved across Lake Washington to Newport Hills.  

Ellen was close to her father and drew on his love for medicine, even examining the medical library he kept at home. While babysitting her little brothers, Karl and Martin, one evening, Ellen took a pen and outlined the muscles on their bodies, even labeling them and providing a simple medical lesson before giving them a bath and putting them to bed.

Driven and focused, but with a smile and an ease about her, Ellen sought to complete high school with a perfect grade-point average.

“The big drama in the house was when Ellen got a B-plus one quarter in student driving,” said her brother, Jon Griep. “Big freakout. She wanted to do extra credit with the teacher.” By the end of the semester, Ellen raised her grade to an ‘A’ and indeed graduated with a 4.0.

“Ellen was perfect,” Jon said. “I was three years younger and I lived in her shadow. She got straight A’s, she did sports … Whenever I followed her in school, I always got, ‘Are you Ellen’s brother?’”

Ellen and friend Suzanne had a lot of ideas of things they wanted to try in sports. As they tossed a Frisbee across the street to each other, they fantasized about starting an Olympic Frisbee team. And while playing soccer with their brothers – there were 11 boys between the two close-knit families – they wondered about starting their own girls’ soccer team, which they did in middle school.

The Newport Hills/Bellevue league refused to recognize a girls’ team, so they played in Port Washington, five miles farther away. Even that came with a caveat: The girls had to line the field themselves and scour it for rocks before games, neither of which the boys had to do.

That’s how the ‘Bombers,’ Ellen and Suzanne’s team for the next several years, were born and in her first game, Ellen received a yellow card from the referee, her father, for unsportsmanlike behavior.

“You didn’t want to get on her bad side,” Suzanne Goldschmidt said. “She was really aggressive, and very loyal. She was a good person to have in your corner.”

In the summer before her senior year, Ellen was swimming laps with her neighborhood water polo team. Suzanne was on the deck with friends when she noticed someone at the bottom of the pool, and after a few moments, realized it was Ellen. She and others screamed for help.

The lifeguard was no longer on duty and heading toward his car when he abruptly turned and ran back to the pool. Two onlookers pulled her out, bloated and blue with no movement. As the lifeguard performed mouth to mouth, Suzanne could tell no air was going in and Ellen was not responding. Suzanne remembered that Ellen wore a retainer and told the lifeguard. He removed it and continued the CPR, and Ellen began to breathe.

She opened her eyes, looked right at her friend and said, “Hi, Suzie.”

“When I was able to see her, she was really confused, scared and had no idea what had happened, so I walked her through what I knew,” Suzanne said. “I remember her being in a state of disbelief and I had to retell the story over and over to her.”

The diagnosis was a diving reflex action that caused her to inhale water into her lungs. Griep recovered fully and little was thought about it.

As Brown thought about this episode through today’s perspective, she said, “It showed despite the strong, able, determined exterior, Ellen had something fragile that no one could see, not even her, something out of her control.”

 

GRIEP AND KELLEY didn’t know each other, but rather tried out and made the men’s team independently.

Kelley didn’t have the comprehensive athletic background of Griep. She did play on the Punahou School boys’ soccer team in Hawaii her senior year, changing her reversible mesh jersey behind coconut trees. Otherwise, her passion was surfing.

Growing up in Honolulu near the beach below Diamond Head, Kelley was Hawaii through and through – perpetually tanned and wearing flip flops and shorts in the Palo Alto sunshine.

When Kathy was 15, a friend’s sister was playing in an adult women’s soccer league. The friend wanted to play and asked Kathy if she would join her.

“C’mon, you’ll have fun,” the friend said.

“She dragged me out to practice and my world changed forever,” Carey said.

She’s not kidding. Fifty years later, she’s still playing. Carey has traveled around the country and the world, winning 14 national championships in her age groups and several international masters titles.

Upon returning to Hawaii after graduation, Punahou begged Kathy to coach its new JV girls’ team. Several refusals later and with practice to begin the next day, Carey reluctantly accepted, beginning a 30-year coaching career that included high schools, clubs, the Olympic Development Program, and more than 20 years with the University of Hawai’i women’s team.

To illustrate how far-reaching soccer became in her life, Kathy met her husband, David Carey, on the soccer field. He played for the Stanford men’s team.

“More important than the championships are the wonderful friends that soccer has brought me,” she said. “They are priceless.”

Ellen Griep, Nancy Geisse, 1979 in Hawai'iEllen Griep, Nancy Geisse, 1979 in Hawai'i

THE CAL SHOWDOWN was scheduled for the morning of the 1975 Big Game, on November 22 at 9 a.m. on Stanford’s Harry Maloney Field.

Uniforms … There’s some debate. Carey recalls that the players wore “standard bookstore T-shirts.” Skinner recalls buying unadorned red T-shirts. In the lone surviving photograph of that game, Kathy Kelley is wearing a bookstore-esque football-style shirt with “Stanford” curved over a block number with stripes on the sleeves.

The team had one practice and it wasn’t a particularly good one before the historic first game. It didn’t matter – Stanford clocked the Bears, 4-2.

There was no question this was the start of something, but what? Brown wanted the program to discourage the extreme competitiveness of the men’s game and be a place where even inexperienced players could feel comfortable and accepted as long as they played hard.

She also knew that the team needed a coach. As much as she wanted a woman, at the time there really wasn’t anyone qualified. Instead, Brown turned to a graduating senior on the men’s team, Phil Wright.

“If I can find enough people interested in keeping this going, would you be the coach?” she asked.

Wright didn’t need to think twice. The son of a Stanford French history professor, Wright grew up on campus, learned the game in France when his father was the cultural attachè at the U.S. embassy, and was an all-conference player at Stanford with friends on the women’s team.

Wright was laid back and usually accompanied by Bessie, his black lab/shepherd/husky mix. Wright often coached shirtless or barefoot, and was not immune to a postgame beer. He hosted team strawberry daiquiri parties and invited his players to watch “Soccer Made in Germany” on PBS.

But Wright, competitive as they come, took the role seriously. He earned a U.S. Soccer Federation coaching license, solicited coaching help from his teammates, and refused to be paid, though he jokingly accepted a “salary” of $1.

“I tried to make sure that we created a really positive environment, so that athletes who hadn’t played soccer would still be comfortable and not be intimidated,” he said. “And we had a lot of them.”

Phil Wright, Roble FieldPhil Wright, Roble Field

LONG BEFORE THE Internet, cell phones, and home computers, Wright tried to find games. He called competitors at other schools and scrolled through phone books. By word of mouth, Wright was able to find women’s teams willing to play Stanford.

In winter and spring of 1975-76, Wright found a combination of adult clubs, schools, an indoor tournament, and even a boys under-18 team, to fill out the schedule.

“I was in a situation where I had to create everything,” said Wright, a retired attorney and local government official who had a side career as coach and administrator in the soccer world. “I had to find other teams. I had to try to put together a schedule and find referees, who occasionally was me. I did an awful lot of stuff, but it just seemed like the right thing to do, so the women could have an actual season and play the game that I had played and loved for many years.”

Wright convinced Priddle to surrender some old men’s jerseys and washed them himself, sometimes with help from his mother, after every match. Before a road contest in Davis, Wright washed the uniforms, but didn’t have time to dry them. The players did the rest by gripping the wet jerseys as they flapped outside the open car windows on the long drive.

As the years went along, more women came out for the team – 94 by the fall of 1977. The talent improved as the game grew nationwide with the increasing visibility of Pelè and the North American Soccer League, the growth of girls’ youth leagues, and as Title IX, the education discrimination legislation signed in 1972, kicked in.

Stanford played in the San Jose Women’s League in the fall and the new Northern California Collegiate Women’s Soccer Conference in the spring, going 14-2 that first academic year of 1975-76.

Cindy Shorney came from a soccer background in Wheaton, Illinois, to make an immediate impact at center half as a freshman in 1976-77, the team’s first season with official ‘club’ status.

The team gathered momentum, and crowds at Roble and Harry Maloney fields grew. Wright, who still played semipro in San Francisco on Sundays and in pickup games with international students on weekdays, invited anyone he knew from the soccer community to come watch. With an entertaining high-scoring style of play, the women kept them coming back.

In the spring of 1978, the first AIAW national collegiate championship tournament was three years away, the first NCAA tournament four years off, and North Carolina had not yet become women’s soccer’s first dominant program. But 1978 represented the first stab at a national postseason women’s tournament, in the form of the Colorado College Invitational in Colorado Springs.

Still with no support from athletics, 13 Stanford players each spent $300 of their own money to travel to a nine-team event that featured Northern Colorado, regarded as the best in the country.  

In a hectic two-day tournament that was played through sun and rain, Stanford forced a matchup with Northern Colorado in the semifinals. Stanford countered a tying own goal with a late penalty-kick winner by freshman Kris McGarrey, who followed with a tying goal in the final against Texas later that day in the cold and mud.

With three minutes remaining in the first overtime period, Griep pounded home a goal to give Stanford a 2-1 victory over the Longhorns and perhaps even a claim at a national championship.

A year later, Nancy Geisse arrived with 10 years of playing experience, first in the soccer hotbed of St. Louis and then on a high school boys’ team in Indianapolis. Geisse found a kinship with the senior Griep as elite-level players with similar attitudes toward the game.

“I wanted it to be a serious program,” Geisse said. “And sometimes I was vocal about that.”

With the two up front and Shorney causing havoc, Stanford had perhaps its best season yet, going 21-1 in 1978-79 to close out its first four-year stretch at 65-8-2 with three conference championships.

The program was having great success, but with the success came frustration from the athletic department’s unwillingness to recognize that success and bless women’s soccer as a varsity sport.

At one point Kelley and Geisse walked into athletic director Andy Geiger’s office unannounced. Kelley dropped an armful of trophies on his desk and told him, essentially, We’re doing our part. When are you going to do yours?

While other women’s club programs were being raised to varsity status, soccer was left behind. Men’s soccer even was demoted to “varsity club” status, apparently to keep things even by preventing the additional expense of adding women’s soccer as a Title IX consequence.

Geisse had further one-on-one discussions with Geiger without progress. But the administration gave the program hope by offering a deal. If the assistant men’s coach also coached the women’s program, varsity status could be achieved because a staff member would be in charge at no additional cost.

Painfully, the team agreed to let Wright go, but the athletics department did not follow through. The new coach was not a good fit and off-the-field issues arose, which may have delayed the ascent to varsity for several more years. It wasn’t until 1984 that Stanford finally played its first official varsity contest.

ON JANUARY 7, 1982, Kathy Kelley Carey received a call from Seattle. Ellen Griep died in her sleep at age 24.

A third-year student at University of Washington’s School of Medicine, Griep didn’t show up for her shift that morning at the Pacific Medical Center. Thinking she overslept, though out of character for Ellen, staff went to her quarters on the same hospital grounds where she grew up and found her.

Fatal cardiac arrest, caused by a congenital defect that had gone undetected. Given a couple more years, the defect undoubtedly would have been discovered and treated and she would have been fine.

“It was stunning,” Carey said. “Just shocking.”

Griep had still been an active player and a member of two Seattle-area squads to win the U.S. National Challenge Cup – the highest level for women’s soccer at the time. The coach was Mike Ryan, who would become the first U.S. women’s national team coach two years later.

It’s not hard to imagine that the first official international match played by the U.S. women’s national team, against host Italy on Aug. 18, 1985, could have included two Stanford players -- Griep and Geisse. Geisse was on that team, but underwent what turned out to be unnecessary abdominal surgery that summer and was sidelined for weeks because of complications, missing the trip. She never heard from the national team again.

For years, Griep was remembered at the Investiture of the Doctoral Hoods and Oath Ceremony at UW’s School of Medicine, when a student was honored with the Ellen Griep Award for providing inspiration to his or her peers, staff, and faculty by managing the academic demands of medical school and maintaining excellence in other endeavors in life.

And inside the Pacific Tower, is the Ellen Griep Memorial Library.

“Ellen’s still one of the most wonderful and impressive people I’ve had the honor to know,” her brother, Jon, said.  

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THERE WERE ATTEMPTS to gather the first Stanford teams together over the years, at reunions or on home soccer weekends. But not much came of them. It took the pandemic to get things moving.

Wright came up with the idea for reconnection and Cindy Shorney Pearson reached out to make it happen. The response was tremendous. Collecting photos and updates and information, she put them all together into an elaborate Shutterfly book entitled “Our Story.”

The first Zoom reunion included 18 players (every player whose email address could be located at the time), the next 30, and eventually 40. Upon sending a copy of the book to Stanford, where it resides in the team locker room, the Knowles Family Director of Women's Soccer Paul Ratcliffe set up one more Zoom call.

With current players gathered closely together on the bleachers of Laird Q. Cagan Stadium, a screen was set up in front so they could meet Brown, Carey, Pearson, Skinner, and Wright.

“I thought it was going to last 10 minutes,” Pearson said. “But it was so much more. They asked some really good questions. They were very interested and appreciative.”

Brown didn’t realize until then how important soccer was for everyone on her team. How, even though she didn’t have many close relationships off the field with them, she valued the lifelong connections created by soccer.

“My memories are mostly connected with pictures now,” Brown said. “At some point, the picture becomes your memory, whether it’s of Ellen up there doing these incredible things or Kathy so powerful and playing such great defense … And there are so many memories of being silly.

“I remember laughing a lot.”

The team was created by players who simply wanted the opportunity to play. It never was the coach’s team or the school’s.

“What’s cool in retrospect is, we owned it,” Carey said. “It was entirely ours. We worked for this. We made it happen.”

It was everything Brown envisioned it could be. As she wrote in a departure letter to the team in 1978: “My dream has finally come true.”

Consider the afternoons Brown stood alone with a ball waiting for someone to arrive. She had patience that they would, if not that day, then the next. And those days would be great. She just knew it.

 
The 1978 Stanford women's soccer teamThe 1978 Stanford women's soccer team