THE RULES WERE clear in the Paris apartment of Philippe and Vanessa Raynaud. Breakfast and dinner together as a family. Study. And if time, there was basketball.
Their son, Maxime, had no issues with the priorities. In fact, he embraced them. He understood the gifts he’d been given and the environment he lived in.
In the sunlit mornings from the balcony in their seven-story apartment building, the City of Lights spread all around them and the smell of baguettes and coffee rose from the cafes on the narrow street below.
Rarely was there a need for a car in the 14th Arrondissement, with so much within walking distance. Part of the reason for choosing to live in an apartment in the city was to encourage adventures outside of it and Maxime and his older sister, Louise, took advantage.
They could explore the Catacombs – where in the 17th century, bones of the dead were moved into abandoned tunnels and quarries beneath the city – only 750 meters from their front door. Or the Observatory of Paris, the Musée de la Libération, the majestic Lion de Belfort, and open-air markets – all within a mile of their home.
There were many weekend afternoons at the Parc Montsouris, where Maxime and Louise jogged alongside their parents down the doppled paths through cedar, beech, chestnut, gingko, and even Persian silk trees. The vast lawns, lake, and many statues – even the majestic Column of the Armed Peace – were the backdrop to their adolescence. But this wonderland had its own set of walls, something teenage Maxime realized as he contemplated his future.
After one demanding day of classes at the Lycee Henri-IV secondary school, he opened the door and was greeted by his mother.
“Welcome home,” she said. “Guess what? I had a phone call from Stanford …”
Before she could finish her sentence, Maxime’s eyes opened wide. He was ready to pack his bags immediately at the news of Stanford’s interest.
“When am I leaving?” he said, before she could even finish her sentence.
This wasn’t a turn Philippe and Vanessa expected.
“We never spoke about it before,” Vanessa said. “Never. It was his dream, but he didn’t share it with us. It came as a surprise. But, for me, it was the discovery that he really had something important, something he wanted to fight for.
“That was the beauty of it. It was his discovery. So, we started to discuss -- ‘OK, Let’s make this happen.’”
A few months later, Vanessa cried at Paris’ Charles de Gaulle Airport to such an extent that she wasn’t even able to manage a goodbye.
“We were so far away,” Vanessa said. “We didn’t know anything about Stanford, about basketball, about anything. We just want to be sure our son is safe, our son is OK. And that’s it. The rest we trust.”
On the other side of the world, Stanford basketball’s Adam Cohen and David Berkun wandered around the baggage claim at SFO looking for their 7-foot-1 freshman. Cohen, the assistant coach under Jarod Haase who discovered Raynaud, and his cousin Berkun, the team’s director of operations and player personnel, were unable to communicate by text to Maxime’s European-styled cell.
They eventually did find a tall guy in jeans with a single suitcase, which seemed to bely the fact that Maxime was leaving all that he knew – his home, his family, his country, his language – behind him for a place he’d never been.
Raynaud may have been timid or unsure, but he didn’t show it when he arrived on campus for the first time. He was “blown away,” Berkun said, by the basketball facilities and couldn’t hold in his enthusiasm for the shooting machine in the practice gym.
“When somebody has an appreciation for his surroundings, it gives you a good feeling, like he’s a good human being,” said Berkun, now an assistant coach at Illinois-Chicago. “Like he’s grateful for what’s about to happen and what he’s earned and been given. I think he was extremely grateful to be given what Stanford provided him. That I definitely remember.”
And then Raynaud stepped on the court.
“I think we were all pleasantly surprised,” Berkun said.